UFE SHOWDOWN

Saturday, April 27, 2013

.......lucky number 7..

another week, well, not just any week, I'm almost 7 weeks out. I get butterflies in my tummy just thinking about it, my heart starts beating faster and my eyes get a little teary lol. Talk about emotional lol. This week was awesome! The highlight was my bikini fitting. Lisa is amazing for what she does, she sees you and already knows what will look good and what won't. She knows how your going to look on stage and she makes you look out of this world! It was an interesting experience. I was able to meet some other competitors and also non-competitors but what has stayed with me the most is how friendly, encouraging and inspirational everyone is. I have never in my life, come across people who just want to put a smile on your face, its contagious because I go away with wanting to do that for somebody else. I'll be keeping my bikini suit a secret until competition day! I may hint at some stuff (bling bling) but an actual pic will be on JUNE 22 2013! Thanks Lisa again for you advice and sharp eye for detail! (https://www.facebook.com/#!/FXUniverse?fref=ts)

This has been a motivational week, many of you are posting pics and healthy comments which is excellent! Never give up on what you want and need to feel better inside and out. Invest the time and you will see results. Its tough some days but no one said it would be easy! In the next couple of weeks I'll start tanning, get a base for my spray tan and little by little it begins to sink in all over again! my bikini fitting was a mix of emotion, I felt happy, nervous, shocked and a sense of realization. I'm not sure how to explain it but as I was trying on all these bikinis it gave me a birds eye view of how far I've come and more so on the mental aspect than the physical. I go back to 2010 to the end of 2011 and I  remember how I felt about myself inside and out, feeling like I couldn't do anything right for myself, my self-esteem was low, I felt alone and not really fitting in anywhere (laterally) and as I was with Lisa, for first time in my life I felt that I mattered, that I have a purpose in life and that purpose is to continue what I'm doing because all I'm wanting to do is help others feel the same way; be happy with themselves inside and out. I don't know how I'm going to feel on competition day but what I can say is that I will be amongst family, friends and the most dedicated, disciplined people I could never imagine myself having the honour to be around, I will be amongst those people and I'm sure I will be overwhelmed with emotion and to spend it with my friends will be the culmination of it all, as these friends are the ones that support me and help me thru it all because motivation is not a one way street, its a two way, you give and you get. So, get going and soon enough you'll see that anything you put your mind to will happen for the simple fact that you're in full control and the rest will fall into place.
 
I posted this pic because this was my face when I was trying on the bikini's lol gosh there so tiny!








Thank you again Lisa, for making this experience a whole lot more memorable! and for all my awesome friends out there thank you for sticking by me and motivating me to go with this flow and I will continue to support and motivate all you! Thank you!

Friday, April 19, 2013

9 weeks out!

Sunday we headed down to Niagara, we went to Brasa Brazilian steak house, it was an awesome experience and the food was soooo good!! I do have to mention that Sunday was officially my last day of having cheat meals so no more cheats for me! and I'm so happy to have spent it with my hubby and our best friend Alex! I'm ready to focus more than ever in the next 9 weeks.

Every day that my eyes have opened I'm thinking about how great I'm going to feel this day, before I step out of bed I lay there reflecting on everything that I've accomplished and meditate on the things I need to do to reach my goals. I think about all the blessings I have in my life right now and how much I love to motivate and push my friends to do the same, its such a rewarding feeling knowing I'm paying it forward, like I always say, I want to share this feeling, this moment in time with anyone who wants and needs a change in there life and I love being part of that.

I never imagined I would take away so much from this experience, to me its become so much more than my bikini competition, its become a movement, a movement to help others, to reach out to everyone, to lend a hand and to make a difference in someones life, even if its just one person or many. I've taken away so much from the last 4 months, I never imagined in my life to start a year on the right foot and the only way that was possible was to stay focused on what I needed to do to reach my existing goals. I know in life we all go thru hardships, tough times are tough to over come and when you have someone that can stand beside you and hold your hand thru those times, it makes a world of a difference when you finally reach a level where you can move on. Scars will never go away but as we know, there constant reminders of how far we've come and what we have endured in our own journey thru life. I always remember that when you strive, other people watch and unknowingly you're helping them come out of that dark place they could be going thru in there life. We are living in tough times, where its difficult to think positive, everywhere we turn there's more drama or negativity that it does take a toll on our mental state, I've learned that limiting these things is key. I have full control of what I allow and don't allow in "my world" and so does everyone else. Choose what you need in your life and what you don't. Cleansing doesn't just have to be internal, it also needs to be physical. It doesn't mean your going to pick and choose whose in your life; what I mean is, what will you pay attention to, will you allow it to control your emotions, feelings and thoughts? Knowing when to step back and giving yourself a breather will allow you to take control of how you feel in order for you to move forward. Never allow anyone to keep you from achieving what you want and need in your life. We've all heard it before "life is short" it definitely is, but we have the opportunity to make everyday count. It doesn't matter how old we are, what counts is what we've done, what we've accomplished, what do we see when we reflect on our own life? Make it count. That's my 2 cents.

Moving on, I have decided that in loo of being 9 weeks out, I will be changing from 1 month progress pics to every 2 weeks up until competition, I may keep you guys hanging the last 2 weeks out and then post pics from the show! lol or do sneak peaks :)

Saturday I was at Spring bash and it was an eye opener to me. I realized how focused and calm I have to be on the day of competition. The slightest stress can effect your entire show and also your hormonal balance and it will show in your tan. I was honoured to be working with the best lady; Louise Dudley from Monaco sun (2nd from the left) (https://www.facebook.com/#!/airbrushtan.monacosun) along with Nicki (far right) who is also a competitor. I met amazingly knowledgeable people like Janet (far left) I was able to see how the tanning works out. Louise is by far the best woman to go to for tanning. I've never really seen a spray tan and always thought it was awful, but Louise uses the best of the best products! the tan was even and it has a glow to it, it was the best tan I've ever seen! NO UV TANNING NEEDED. What I learned was how important exfoliating is, not that I don't exfoliate, but its important to achieve that perfect tan.
My mentor and friend; Diana Araujo came in second place! she looked absolutely stunning!!!! Believe me when I say, when you look at the models in OXYGEN magazine, they actually look like that in real life! Diana is the sweetest girl, shes so confidant on stage, shes such a good example for me, shes the full package. Daastan Noor came in first place! I want to extend my congrats to him not only on placing but also for winning the UFE really BIG contest, his hard work, dedication and persistence truly is paying off, he's a true testament that dreams don't need to stay as just dreams, when we work hard and give it 110% every time we will reach for the stars every time! Congrats to Diana and Dastaan as well as all the other competitors at Spring bash.
 




Friday, April 12, 2013

a day in the life of a first time bikini competitor

What a week its been!! cravings like you have no idea, every week it gets worse! lol But it won't get to me!! I know what I want to look like on the UFE stage! talking about UFE stage, I'm soooo exciting about UFE Spring bash tomorrow April 13 2013! in Mississauga. I'm eager to meet Diana Araujo! shes one of the bikini competitors, shes super sweet and so disciplined a great example for me shes not new to the bikini competition but it is her first time on the UFE stage and I'm rooting for her, shes awesome!

I get asked how I have time in the day to prep for my bikini competition and I wanted to share with you what my typical day is like. As you know, diet is difficult to follow at times but it does become a habit of prepping meals and being on the defence all day everyday with food that surrounds you that is not part of your diet. I always say to myself "don't think twice, don't waste time" and multi-tasking is key to getting stuff done. So, here it is a typical day in the life of a first time bikini competitor.

6AM- ALARM CLOCK RINGS
6:05AM- GET GYM CLOTHES ON
6:15AM-  IN THE BATHROOM GETTING MY VITAMINS/MINERALS, FISH OIL AND VITAMIN C INTO MY COMPARTMENT TO TAKE LATER ON IN THE AM.
6:20AM- PREP MY GYM BAG WITH MY TRAINING JOURNAL/FOOD JOURNAL, PHONE, PEN, VITAMIN COMPARTMENT, FAT BURNER, LEAUCINE, BCAA
6:30AM- HEAD DOWNSTAIRS, FILL PROTEIN SHAKE WITH WATER ADD FAT BURNER, FILL WATER BOTTLE WITH WATER, POUR 1 SCOOP OF LEUCINE/BCAA IN IT.
6:35AM- HEAD TO THE BASEMENT WHERE MY GYM IS. TURN ON THE TV TO CHANNEL 7! CP24 BREAKFAST
6:38AM- TAKE FAT BURNER, CHECK FACEBOOK AND EMAIL.
6:45AM- WARM-UP FOR EXERCISE
8:15AM- TRAINING DONE, REST FOR 15MIN
8:30AM- HEAD UPSTAIRS, TIME TO MAKE BREAKFAST
9AM- EAT BREAKFAST WHILE WATCHING CP24 BREAKFAST AND BEING ON UPDATING FACEBOOK, RETURNING MSGS, TAKE VITAMINS
9:30AM- HEAD UPSTAIRS TO MY ROOM, DROP OFF MY GYM BAG
9:32AM- SHOWER
9:45AM-WAKE UP HUBBY TO GO TO WORK/PACK MEALS FOR THE DAY (ALL 5 MEALS)
10AM- IN THE CAR ON THE WAY TO WORK
****FROM THIS TIME TO 5:30-6PM, I'M WORKING, I'M ALSO EATING MY MEALS AND RECORDING THEM IN MY FOOD JOURNAL****
6:30PM- ARRIVE @ HOME. AFTER A JOYFUL GREETING FROM ROLI (COCKERSPANIEL) & JOE (GERMAN SHEPHERD) READY TO REST
***2X/WEEK I PREP MY MEALS IT USUALLY TAKES 1 HOUR***
7:45PM- SQUEEZE IN ONE LAST WORKOUT!
8:30PM- PUT MY FEET UP, CATCH UP WITH FRIENDS SPEND TIME WITH HUBBY, READ FITNESS MAGZ, TAKING NOTES, DO RESEARCH ON NEW EXERCISES AND EXERCISE FORM.
10PM- PLAN TRAINING DAY FOR THE FOLLOWING DAY
11PM- LAY DOWN AND START TO WINE DOWN (wishing I could down a wine bottle)
11:30PM- SLEEP TIME

This is a highlight of what happens in my day, this is what day shift looks like. Nights are different, I get up later on in the AM because I work till 1am or 2am depending the night, and I find its much easier but the hunger is what kills me when I work nights, its never the best of both worlds!

My fav part of the day other than training is chatting with my friends over Facebook, I believe the more you share positivity with your circle of friends, the more motivated you get them and also yourself and others notice too. I remember when I was trying to lose weight I couldn't connect with anyone that could relate to what I was going thru emotionally and I know that there are many woman and men who look for someone to guide them in some way, shape or form and I love being that person!! I love to help out anyone who wants to change there lifestyle to a more healthy and fit living one. People always think that they will have to give up everything when they want to lose weight but really its the opposite, you gain so much more by just making small changes at a time.

I post a lot about motivation because I remember saying " life's short, might as well eat and drink, I may die tomorrow without having lived" and now that I think of it, I was shortening my own life, and saying this to make myself feel better about what I was doing. I now realize that I haven't been living to my best potential. I wasn't doing anything for myself except make excuses and justify my bad eating habits and it also affected other areas of my life. With every stretch mark I have on my body, its a reminder of how I neglected myself for so many years! I love what my meals do for me, eating doesn't need to be indulging at every meal, food is fuel. As I always say, if you want to make the change, you first need to change the way you think about food. Without changing your mentality, there is no way you will maintain a healthy lifestyle. Without your health, your nothing and that's how I live my life right now.

My bikini competition is a new chapter for me, I'm closing one chapter from my past life and starting over, clean slate, and this time its going to be a healthy, fit lifestyle and the only things I'm taking with me are my experiences and lessons from the past, because I know that if I have these two components I can accomplish everything I want in my life and get other people to get motivated too. I us to think that there's no way you can start over, what would people think? that I'm fake... Well, let me tell you, anyone at any age can start over. Just because you've been one way your entire life doesn't mean that, that is who you are, we evolve, we change, we learn, we grow, we mature, things become more clear, you come to know whats right and whats wrong, so, change is within us all, we just have to take that step, and its not a chance, its not a leap of faith, its something that happens naturally and there is no flaw in that!

I goal is to continue helping and encouraging all my readers to stick to it, this is for you! no one else. Life is a stage, and we can make it what we want and put in it what we need to live a lifestyle worth living because we own a healthy heart, a healthy mentality we choose what stays and what gets tossed. I'm not saying we are prone to everything else in life but what I am saying is that, by doing this we become stronger people deep in our core and no matter what life throws at us we can face them head on.

I know I've said this many times but surrounding youself with friends and family that support you will give you that push you need to start or continue on your path and always remember that you may never know who else is watching you and learning from you, so, you also have the silent supporters.

I hope all of you have a wonderful weekend despite the weather. This Sunday Ill be in Niagara Falls, I'm really looking forward to my cheat meal, not sure what it is yet, haven't made up my mind, I kinda get an anxiety attack as the day approches lol. I'll keep you posted. Stay safe and healthy!






Friday, April 5, 2013

addressing common questions

Hello! week 2 of the new diet plan and its going good but I do have to say that I've been so hungry this week making it the hardest week! I eat and about 30 min later I feel as though I haven't ate in hours! I actually take my time eating, before I us to gobble it all up quick. That being said, last week I posted my progress pics and I received an overwhelming amount of comments, questions and support from friends and family. I wanted to take this time and address those questions because lets face it, I remember being so confused with what to eat, exercise, what to do what not to do and so on, so, I want to help out as much as I can and share my knowledge with you and what has worked for me. This is a long post and I know many of you have your daily todos, so I have listed my questions by colour below, you can just scroll down and see the answer to your question(s).

  • Stretch marks and lose skin
-VITAMIN E serum and VITAMIN E tablets
-Avalon Organics CoQ10
-What do I apply first?
-How much vitamin E to apply?


  • How do you get muscles?
  • Do you use a supplements to help you build muscles?
  • How do you know what protein is good for you?
  • How much time will it take to see results?
  • What do you do for training?
  • What made you want to do a bikini competition?
  • Where do you get your motivation from?
  • What advice would you give someone who is starting their weight loss journey?

Stretch marks and lose skin, this is the question my family and friends are intrigued to know about. As you know I us to weigh 180 lbs. When I started to lose weight I didn't think about the stretch marks or lose skin I was just happy that I was getting healthy and active. But when I decided to compete, all of a sudden it became an issue that I had to fix! I think its something all woman and possibly men freak over because we don't want these things getting in the way of how we feel and how we see ourselves. What I've learned is, when you shed the weight, its important to make the muscle strong underneath. If the muscle underneath the skin is weak then not only will your core be weak but your skin will remain lose. Weight training has truly helped me with this issue, as the muscle grows its stretches the skin filling in those "us to be fat pockets". The abdomen is one of the hardest areas of the body to firm up, as I always tell my family and friends, when wanting to lose the belly, nutrition is key, doing 100 crunches a day won't help if your eating is all over the place. So, now that I have the nutrition in place and I'm eating cleaner than I was before, I have noticed a huge difference in my mid section. I did notice more stretch marks and lose skin in the beginning but now its become less noticeable. I wanted to share with you some products I use to assist me in getting a firm looking midsection along with minimal stretch marks. I will say,  no product will ever completely remove stretch marks or lose skin but what I can attest to is that there are products that diminish the look of these two things and just that, makes me happy. Just so you, this is what I do, it works for me, please ask your doctor for the necessary in-take of Vitamins and minerals.

VITAMIN E serum and VITAMIN E tablets- I apply vitamin E serum with baby oil just because the serum does not spread smoothly over the skin, the baby oil allows me to spread it and massage it into the skin much easier. I also take a vitamin E supplement to repair the skin from the inside. I apply the serum twice a day. When taking a vitamin E supplement it's recommended to take 15mg/day.

Avalon Organics CoQ10- This product is a firming body lotion. I bought this at Village health food. I've been using this lotion for 2 weeks and I can already see a more firm skin appearance. I apply it when I wake up, coming back from work and after a shower.

With both products I make sure I really incorporate it into the skin, really massaging it in until the skin becomes smooth. With the vitamin E and baby oil just make sure its not oily, you don't need a lot of the baby oil just a dime size.

What do I apply first? I apply the lotion before the vitamin E serum, because the lotion absorbs much quicker into the skin than the vitamin E.

How much vitamin E to apply? With vitamin E they come in different IU's, some are 10,000IU others are 25,000IU. I use the 28,000IU because that's what I found at Shopper drug mart. Depending on what areas your applying it to, I use about a toonie size for big areas such as outer and inner thighs, buttocks, back and abdomen.
Before                                                                                            After
03.29.2013                                                                                                                              04.05.2013
1 week and you can notice the saggy lines look diminished, the lower abdomen also looks more tight.

Another thing I look for is products that say "Paraben free" this is a preservative found in most cosmetics and lotions. It mimics estrogen and increases DNA damage. I know there's not much research done on parabens but I do stay away, as we all know, preservatives are not good for the body. I know that now a days its harder to get our hands on all natural products but I also believe that minimizing these chemicals as much as possible is beneficial.

Where I get my info.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/289662-stretch-marks-vitamin-e/?utm_source=livestrong_opar&utm_medium=1

http://www.davidsuzuki.org/issues/health/science/toxics/what-you-need-to-know-about-toxics-in-your-cosmetic-products/?gclid=CNKbl9KcqrYCFY9DMgod9EYAew

http://davidsuzuki.org/issues/health/science/toxics/chemicals-in-your-cosmetics---parabens/

How do you get muscles? At this point in my journey I'm beginning to realize that losing weight was the easiest part. For losing the weight, all I had to do was portion control and eliminate junk food and eat more nutritious food. I didn't really think about how much of what I was eating because I knew that what I was eating was the opposite of what I was eating before so, I knew that the weight would come off. Once you decrease your caloric intake your bound to see results when losing weight.

Building muscle is a science. Having the right nutrition at the right time is key. How much you eat and how balanced your meals are will result in muscle growth. The more weight you lift the more muscles will grow. Muscles only grow if you lift heavy and tear the muscles in order for them to repair, your nutrition will determine how fast they repair and how lean you will get. I include protein, carbs and fats in all my 5 meals a day. Here's an example of what I eat on a typical day. Remember I'm doing a bikini competition so this diet is pretty strict with dairy, sugars, salts and fats.

Meal 1- 250g egg whites, 1/2 cup oats
Meal 2- Tuna can, 3/4 cup Quinoa, 1 tsp Udo's oil
Meal 3- 1 1/2 scoop of protein, 2 rice cakes (plain)
Meal 4- 3.5 oz chicken breast, 1/2 cup broccoli, 1/2 cup brown rice or Quinoa
Meal 5- 250g egg whites, 1/2 cup yams

This is what a typical day of eating is for me. I eat every 2-4 hours. I'm not saying to follow this diet, I just want you to get an idea of what you should be including and eliminating from your diet to see results, you also want to keep your metabolism burning and the only way to do that is to eat! I use Mrs. Dash, it has no salt, I use mustard and black pepper for taste.

Building muscle is not easy but its not impossible. I recommend starting with resistance bands to learn proper form before starting with heavy weights. I cannot stress how important it is to watch your form when wanting to lean out or build muscle. you can lift all you want but if your not contracting the right muscles group your training, you won't see the results you want.

 Do you use a supplements to help you build muscles? I use BCAA to support muscle stimulation, this won't bulk you up, it will assist your muscle during and after training so that your muscle does not break down. Soon enough you'll realize, the hard work you put into weight lifting, you definitely do not want to be losing muscle mass, so, use a protein or BCAA to help your muscles and also know that you didn't just waste your time lifting. The product to the left is the protein I'm using.

How do you know what protein is good for you? Always ask questions when buying a protein, there are soooooo many out there! I like a whey protein powder because it has no sugar, it has enough protein to assist my muscles
and they normally have 1g carbs. Before starting a protein I consult my friend Manny from Global sports nutrition, he is very knowledgeable in guiding me to the results I need and want. DO research, it doesn't hurt and will save you time and money, finding out what people have to say about the product you choose, will give you an idea of what it may do to you. I always look at how many are positive and how many are negative and go by that. If its equal I will give it a try but if there are too many of the same issues I will move onto another product even if they include positive comments.

How much time will it take to see results? If you apply all the above, I started to see results within the first 1-2 weeks.

What do you do for training? I've learned so much since beginning my competition training, you will also learn alot about what your body responds to and what it doesn't respond to. Before I was doing kickboxing, which I LOVE but my body got us to the movements and soon enough I was just maintaining my weight and physique, but with the competition I knew I had to rev it up. I began to do INSANITY. I tried INSANITY last year and didn't like it, it was not what I needed at the time because now I LOVE IT! I soon realized that HIIT (high intense interval training) was something that was going to work for me especially because I'm training 2x a day 6 days a week. With HIIT, I train 20-30min and I build an excellent sweat! I began to see fat melting off and more muscle definition. Here's an example of what I do HIIT:
30 or 40 sec interval, 15-30sec rest between exercises




  • High knees
  • Squat jumping jacks
  • push-up over chair
  • ab crunch (on ball)
  • 1/2 burpee
I do these 5 exercises as fast as I can, in the allotted time frame and rest 15-30sec. I do this 3x a week and run 2x a week. I've learned that when wanting to get muscle definition you do not need to do hours of cardio 20-30 min is sufficient.

Weight training. I do weight training 6x/week. Here's an example of what I do:

Mon- LEGS/GLUTES
Tues- BACK/CHEST
Wed-BICEPS/TRICEPS
Thurs- ABS/GLUTES
Fri-LEGS
Sat- FULL BODY PLATE TRAINING
Sun- REST

I hit glutes and legs 2x/week because these are areas that I need to work on for my competition but you can hit them 1x/week and rest 2x/week and take it easy on ab days focus more on core exercise to strengthen the core muscles, so you know how to work the abs properly. I learned to do a proper crunch not too long ago and I'm beginning to see major results!! just like resistance bands before lifting heavy, same goes with core work outs, focus on form to see firm abs!

My training will differ from yours, especially because most of you are not competing but this is for you to get an idea of what you could be doing to see the results you want and need. You definitely do not need to be working out 2x/day like I am but you should be training 3-4x/week. When I'm not in competition season I will be returning to my regular scheduled training which is 3-5x/week training but only hitting the gym 1x/day.

Over training without proper nutrition will affect your mood and your sleep. I've learned this first hand. When doing strenuous training, if you do not take proper care of yourself you will see negative affects on your daily routines, like, going to work, taking care of family and so on. I cannot stress how important it is to never go from zero to hero! I keep this in mind all the time! Give your body and mind time to adjust to your new routine, never push yourself to the point where you get discouraged later on. The worse thing that can happen is, you do excellent and give it your all one day and then 2-3 days or a week later you have no interest in training or worse you get injured. Take it one day at a time.

What made you want to do a bikini competition? When I reached my goal of losing weight I took a break and enjoyed my summer at the beach, got to wear a bikini for the first time and I felt the confidence I never had before. I love myself and respect myself more than I ever have and everyday I give myself reasons to continue and not stop with just being satisfied. As you all may or may not know, my ultimate favorite magazine is OXYGEN. I began to follow them on Facebook and soon I heard the name Tosca Reno from my good friend Shari. It intrigued me to know who this person was and soon I realized that she is a contributor to OXYGEN magazine (now CEO) after her husband; Robert Kennedy past. She wanted to do one more bikini competition in honour of her late husband. I followed her journey all the way to the stage even going to the Steven and Chris show to see her (3X). Tosca inspired me, I told myself I need to do this for myself. I want to do this bikini competition because I owe it to myself to be healthy, fit and inspire others to do the same. I had a fire inside that if I could physically give it to my family and friends to just feel what I feel I would give it away. I feel that without even knowing I had people watching and all I did was continue to share because caring about yourself first will allow you to care for others around you, and I feel I have and continue doing just that.

Where do you get your motivation from? My motivation comes from the feeling I get just from training and eating clean. Its an effort every single day, seeing the results is motivational all on its own. My support system is a huge contributor to staying motivated. I have a couple ladies I'm helping out and they keep me motivated every single day! All my family and friends tell me I'm doing an excellent job and how far I've come are reasons for me to continue because we all look for someone to inspire us and why not pass that on. Being around positive, constructive people will also move you to think the same. The one thing I did do when I started my journey was, I got rid of everything and anything negative.

What advice would you give someone who is starting their weight loss journey? DON'T OVER PLAN! I've said so many times and I will continue to say it, small goals need to be set. Setting goals, I would say is more important than anything you will do because these small goals will get you very far! When you want to lose weight you have a bunch of ads, commercials and diet plans surrounding you, there's so much out there. I learned if you want to succeed you need to follow a plan that will fit into your lifestyle. I didn't go to any clinic or took a magic pill. I tailored my diet to my lifestyle. I substituted the bad foods for foods and we all know what the bad ones are. I knew I had to start eating because I wasn't eating enough and when I was eating I always reached for junk food. I first set a small goal which was to eat 1 healthy meal a day for a week. After the week I set a second goal; work out for 15-20min 3X/week, still eating 1 healthy meal a day. Third week, eat 2 healthy meals a day, still keeping my work outs. I began to see results for the first time in my life, just by doing small baby steps, I wasn't stressing or in any rush. Those small goals have brought me to the place I am today, and doing my bikini competition is my first long term goal. I started to change my diet and work outs in January 2013 and I've been improving and learning every single month and I will continue to learn so much in the following months. Remember, if you rush your weight loss the chances of you keeping the weight off are slim. Slow is good, get to know what your body responds to, listen to your body, and above all set small goals to make a lifestyle change not a temporary change.

We don't just become healthy from one day to another, it really takes commitment, motivation and time, like they say "Rome wasn't built in a day" so, first understand that you need to change the way you think and never, ever, say " I'm going to do this and this and that" Why? because we set our self up to fail. Instead say " I'm going to do this first" TAKE  IT ONE DAY AT A TIME. Set small, short goals and I guarantee, you will see the results you want and need.

Stay positive my friends! Another week, a week to start the beginning of the rest of a healthy life.